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I feel like you have re-instilled my confidence in people, and the belief that they can directly affect the way that I feel, and my emotions.
Vinodh Chaudhry – (Security Firm) Bergen County, NJ
Is lack of self confidence making life harder for you than it needs to be ?
Do nerves make you self conscious and hesitant ?
You may be confident in some areas of life, but less so in others. Low self confidence can make life tricky – and sometimes downright unpleasant. You don’t get the best from opportunities that come your way and you may even avoid certain situations because you simply don’t believe you can cope as well as other people. In fact, others may even misinterpret your lack of self-confidence, as arrogance. Perhaps you started feeling less and less confident because your childhood upbringing, or maybe because the choices you’ve made and the experiences you’ve had. It simply doesn’t matter. Anyone can learn to be confident with Hypnosis. All it takes is a simple shift of perspective. A new way of looking at yourself.
You can change your self-image. There is plenty of evidence to suggest that your self-image directly affects your confidence. By allowing your sub-conscious mind to re-integrate a new self-image, a new way of looking at yourself, you can begin to change how you feel about yourself. Of course, as you change how you feel about yourself, you can easily
People often blame themselves for not being confident, as if it was some kind of character defect. But this is a mistake. Lots of things can knock your confidence. Bad experiences, disappointments, stress, bereavement, even just being ill or having had an accident. No matter what kind of ‘character’ you have, these things – especially when they come together, which they so often do – can take all the stuffing out of you.
When you feel you’re nothing but a bundle of nerves and confusion and doubt, it can be hard to imagine that you can be relaxed and at ease and capable of doing whatever you need to do, wherever you need to do it.
Not only does hypnosis allow you to start feeling more confident by improving your self-image, but it can also help you stop the vicious cycle of negative self-talk. Sometimes people constantly ask themselves the wrong questions. Why am I shy ? Why can’t I be assertive ? Why can’t I speak confidently ? Why do I always doubt my-self ? WHAT IF …. ? etc Thus, literally hypnotizing themselves to be shy, less assertive, and less confident. Hypnosis can help you avoid those pitfalls by educating your subconscious mind to have more helpful self-talks and self-criticisms that can actually improve your level of confidence.